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20/20 misses a big point

ARRG! I’m watching 20/20 and John Stossel just did a piece on giving charity. on of his points: religious people give more than nonreligious people.His support was Salvation Army cans set up around the country. They asked the people who donated to specific cans and — guess what! — they were almost all religious!Well guess what! The Salvation Army is a Christian ministry bent on preaching and converting the sick and the poor, and I NEVER donate to them! Don’t you think that little detail might skew the results? The study specifically claimed that religious people give more blood and more money to secular charities than their nonreligious counterparts, but how can I trust and use that information with such a glaring problem in the study? Argggg, Stossel, you can do better than that!Do you give to charity? I do, but I think I should give more. But not to those darn cans.

169 Responses to “20/20 misses a big point”

  1.  karen says:

    Minister to congregation:
    “We have been given the DIGNITY of CAUSALITY!!!”

    Congregation: “Amen!”

    On member nudges the other and whispers quietly, “What’s that mean, anyway?”

    “I dunno, I was going to ask you. So you don’t know either, huh?”

    “Nope, sure don’t. But it SOUNDS good.”

    “Yeah, sounds real important and official-like.”

    “Amen.”
    “Amen.”

  2.  spanders says:

    Hey Karen,
    hmmmm…. am I trying to sound smart? D’oh! Causality is an understanding of why things happen and who is responsible. Let me use an example:

    Let’s imagine a man in his 50’s who ate poorly his whole life and didn’t get much exercise and developed diabetes as a result. He also grew up poor and didn’t have access to good education. Direct causality would go like this: he got diabetes because he chose to eat poorly and decided not to excercise. The cause of his diabetes was a direct result of his choices. Systemic causality would go something like this: having no access to good education and never learning the value of good nutrition and excercise and also being subject to marketing practices of fast food chains (inexpensive high fat, high sugar foods coming with toys for his kids that he couldn’t afford otherwise and offers a safe environment with a playground) he developed bad habits.

    Is he simply the result of his environment or is he responsible for his own actions or lackthereof? In this case I would suggest that there are elements of both and a good way to address these issues is to understand both the direct and systemic causal issues. Once you are an adult, you are responsible for the choices you make. However, it is difficult to make good choices if you’ve never been trained how to make good choices.

    Does that make more sense?

    Amen!

  3.  Anthony says:

    spanders,

    You’re welcome.

  4.  HairlessMonkeyDK says:

    Spanders, I’m right there with ya.

    Which is why I especially detest the Rapture-crowd.
    They see no reason to conserve resources or in any way adress environmental concerns… since, ya know, Jeebus’ll come down in a tinfoil UFO any day now and beam up the True Believers(tm).

  5.  HairlessMonkeyDK says:

    Hehhh, Karen… nice.
    Very well written -and- put!

    Besides, the idea of an omnipotent god, that is, at the same time, universally good, was well questioned long ago:

    “Either God wants to abolish evil, and cannot; or he can, but does not want to. … If he wants to, but cannot, he is impotent. If he can, but does not want to, he is wicked. … If, as they say, God can abolish evil, and God really wants to do it, why is there evil in the world?”.

    – Epicurus.

  6.  Monika says:

    Could it be argued that even grandchildren of those who suffered wrong suffer reprocussions? How do we assess the harm?

    I think it is too hard to assess and that is another reason for a compensation cut off point. I agree it could be argued in some cases descendants suffer repercussions but then in other it could be argued that descendants are better off.

    In addition I wonder about the pros and cons of affirmative action.

    I am not in favour of affirmative action. ?Positive? discrimination is still discrimination. Of course then you have the difficult problem of pin pointing instances of racism and making everyone hire on merit etc. I am not sure how you do that. As you say it is a question of creating a meritocracy. I think education is part of it. Equal access to equally good education. Merit based scholarships. Free education.

    I saw that you were talking about socialized medicine in the next topic, but consider this; I would argue that many people do not start their own business because of health benefits.

    In a soc_ialised system business does not have to provide health benefits as it is government funded. I advocate a mixed system where anyone can access the basics for free and those who want to pay for something more can. The thing about government healthcare IMO is that you (as the voting public) can force more transparency and efficiency into the process. I am not suggesting this is easy necessarily but the public has more power over government that private business. A life threatening procedure should not cost the money your wife?s did! And like you say private business still has bureaucracy.

  7.  karen says:

    spanders

    Hey Karen,
    hmmmm…. am I trying to sound smart? D’oh! Causality is an understanding of why things happen and who is responsible.

    No, buddy. My smartass flippery wasn’t aimed at you. I just cocked and fired at the term “dignity of causality” itself, because it just sounds so high-fallutin’ but it’s really just full of hot air. IMO, anyway.
    It reminded me of some of the preaching I’ve heard, where I’d notice people nodding their heads in agreement about what I thought were ludicrous statements and I wondered, are these people really listening, or are they just on auto-pilot?

  8.  jcc says:

    spanders:

    So you can say whatever you want because it’s justified by you being frustrated? If you were expressing frustration, you could have said: “I find it frustrating?

    spanders, I was making a direct and honest response to what you wrote. My intent wasn?t to hurt your feelings but to address how you entered into that discussion. I directly addressed, issue by issue, what you said that frustrated me. I apologize if my phraseology wasn?t what you expected and upset you, but I?m never going to be less than honest in what I say here. I wasn?t profane; didn?t call you names, or intentionally try to insult you personally. I matter-of-factly informed you of the thoughts, and emotions, you elicited in me.

    all I ever seem to get from you

    This characterizes me as being single faceted with no nuance or validity.

    As I said, part of my frustration is that instead of us discussing any commonality of our faith (which is what I?d really like for us to do) we always seem to get sidetracked into the political aspects of it.

    This reflects you having a single idea of me and not allowing for change

    Not allowing for change by who?

    backhanded attempts at subterfuge

    characterizing me as sneaky and not interested in real conversation.

    Not so much ?sneaky,? as ?subtle;? but I believe the record speaks for itself here. It?s my recollection that in the majority of your responses to me, you rarely pass up an opportunity, or find some way to insert a shot at Bush, Republicans, or Conservatives. Protest all you want, but to me, doing such is unequivocally engaging in subterfuge. Now, after reconsidering your response of righteous indignation at my use of the term ?subterfuge,? I?ll concede that perhaps you were genuinely attempting to branch the conversation, but given your track record of backhandedly including subtle, said barbs, you?ll forgive me if my immediate perception of it was being more of the same.

    You have me all figured out, don’t you?

    Well, considering your affinity for the likes of Lakoff, I believe I?m fairly well justified in my assessment of you at this point.

    Oh, I fit your idea of liberal so I must be 100% for affirmative action?

    You seem awfully thin-skinned here. I merely offered one solution to your dilemma?and in no way meant to imply that you were in 100% agreement with it.

    I’m asking questions about causality and you call it a backhanded subterfuge.

    Again, considering that you jumped-in and tangentially diverted the conversation topic?and seemed to imply guilt by inheritance, I don?t know if, in retrospect, I could have reacted any other way.

    By using the word pity, I understand it as you feeling like I’m simply misinformed or misguided, but you are not.

    I believe we?re all entitled to ?feel? any way we please about others, are we not?

    This is a nuanced discussion without black and white answers, which you seem to require of me or you accuse me of subterfuge.

    Well, given that we?re on an atheist blog?and their predilection/demand for dealing with concrete facts when it comes to establishing an intellectual affinity for a concept, yeah, I think the same should be applied to politics as much as possible (and your frequent, Kerryesque use of nuance is one more data point supporting my perception of you)

    I suspect that has changed me, but I’m not going to tell the people here that I can argue the benefits of prayer as logical and rational argument.

    And why not? Christ told us to pray, didn?t He??if you believe in God, how else can we communicate with Him?and doing so either will, or won?t change you, correct? If you?re so unsure about it then may I ask, why do you engage in it at all? You come across as being almost uncomfortable expressing your faith publicly here. It?s almost as if you?re ashamed to admit that, if it has, prayer has had any effect on you at all. I don?t understand your perceived timidity on that. And I don?t understand you?re lack of desire to express how your faith has changed your life?unless it hasn?t. If you really love God as you say you do, then where is your zeal for Him??a city on a hill cannot be hid.

    To conclude, you “simply expressing your frustration” is a thin veil for saying whatever the hell you want and thinking that you’re not making personal attacks.

    To reiterate, the intent of my response was not to make a ?personal attack? on you?it was out of genuine frustration. If you don?t want future misinterpretations then, and I?m trying to say this as tactfully as I can, then please try to refrain from slipping in the subtle jabs while patting me on the back.

    I know from experience, you have to have a thick skin to play in this yard, and more often than not, hard feelings are caused here by misinterpretations and misperceptions?and I think that that was clearly the case here.

  9. Larry Reynolds rainbows4dinosaurs says:

    I learned a new word today.

    ‘Kerryesque’

  10.  rna2dna says:

    r4d
    You didn’t tell us the definition of the new word. Does it have something to do with someone who doesn’t cause chaos?

  11. Larry Reynolds rainbows4dinosaurs says:

    I’m not sure – can’t find it on Dictionary.com.

    My first guess is that it refers to a person who doesn’t rely on half-remembered yet obnoxiously blunt aphorisms to describe incredibly complex issues.

    My second guess is that it refers to a person who is so wrapped up in his Vietnam War/Summer of Love past that he’s still making lame jokes about the draft.

    Oh wait… it’s an adjective, not a noun.

    Maybe it just means ‘intelligently blundering.’

  12.  spanders says:

    I believe the record speaks for itself here. It?s my recollection that in the majority of your responses to me, you rarely pass up an opportunity, or find some way to insert a shot at Bush, Republicans, or Conservatives.

    Really? I don’t think I’ve taken a shot recently. I was specifically trying to avoid any attacks in this thread. I was thinking about bigger picture issues and asked a question that went to my ideas about living perfectly. You could have ignored the question, but you made it political. You assumed affirmative action. That’s not my fault. In fact, I could argue that you took a political shot at me. I’m trying hard to refine my discourse. If you then rely on what you think my record is as you’ve been gone for months, then you’re not allowing for change. I’ll forgive you for your immediate perception of me being backhanded. Why do you have to add inflametory language like “righteous indignation”? Couldn’t you have just said “considering your response of me using subterfuge…”? Why did you need to say righteious indignation? Who is barbing who?

    Again, considering that you jumped-in and tangentially diverted the conversation topic?and seemed to imply guilt by inheritance, I don?t know if, in retrospect, I could have reacted any other way.

    Yes, you could have. You could have asked me to stay on track to the specifics, but you didn’t. I like to ask broad questions at times. It’s the way I think. Please ask me to stay on track if you feel as though I’ve gotten off.

    I believe we?re all entitled to ?feel? any way we please about others, are we not?

    Now isn’t that subterfuge? Correct me if I’m wrong here.

    And why not? Christ told us to pray, didn?t He?

    Christ also told us to take care of the poor. I do pray and I also wonder about its worth sometimes. You’re making it into an either it works or it doesn’t scenario. I wonder sometimes, but ultimately think that every part of every day is a form of prayer and communication with god. I don’t think god needs a formal ritual to communicate with us. I think praying does more for me than it does for god. Are you saying that the only way to communicate with god is prayer?

    You come across as being almost uncomfortable expressing your faith publicly here.

    I’m uncomfortable with being rude. I try to follow the parameters they set up here, but I think I get opportunities to let people know what I think without being rude. I prefer to be asked and then give what I think rather than tell people what to think.

    If you really love God as you say you do, then where is your zeal for Him?

    I don’t like what zealots have done over the years.

    please try to refrain from slipping in the subtle jabs while patting me on the back.

    I’ll apologize for any past barbs and jabs I’ve taken at bush and conservatives. I don’t think I did it here on this thread.

    I believe we?re all entitled to ?feel? any way we please about others, are we not?

    Yes, yes we are JCC.

  13.  spanders says:

    as I’m pretty sure that you’ll have a response, I’ll give you the last word. I won’t respond past this point.

  14.  jcc says:

    spanders:

    I?m not responding just so I can get the last word in here. I?m replying with answers to your questions and questions of my own.

    Why do you have to add inflametory language like “righteous indignation”? Couldn’t you have just said “considering your response of me using subterfuge…”? Why did you need to say righteious indignation? Who is barbing who?

    I said ?righteous indignation? because it seemed to me that you obviously felt your indignation was righteous. I meant no malice by it and I certainly wasn?t trying to be inflammatory. I was just trying to accurately describe what I thought you were experiencing. Clearly the phrase carries a different connotation for you than it does for me. Again, my apologies.

    I think praying does more for me than it does for god.

    Then, if you?re at all comfortable talking about it, and I mean this with all sincerity, please, by all means, tell me about it?I?d really like to hear about it.

    Are you saying that the only way to communicate with god is prayer?

    No, but I believe it?s the primary way to.

    I’m uncomfortable with being rude.

    How, when asked, is telling about the most important aspect of your life being rude?

    I prefer to be asked and then give what I think rather than tell people what to think.

    Okay, so now I?m asking, again. And if you don?t mind, when have I ever told anybody here what to think?

    I don’t like what zealots have done over the years.

    Really? Not even the likes of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, C.S. Lewis, or Billy Graham?

    I’ll apologize for any past barbs and jabs I’ve taken at bush and conservatives. I don’t think I did it here on this thread.

    Apology accepted. And apology extended for the miscues that could have been avoided by temperance on my part.

    I’ll give you the last word. I won’t respond past this point.

    I hope you?ll reconsider.

  15.  jcc says:

    karen:

    Why do I need to associate with them, or other christians in church to know what christians are like?

    Because it is there, where two or more are gathered in His name, that He will be also?it?s where we are held accountable to each other, before God, for what we say and do as Christians.

    Are you only talking about Sunday Christians?

    No. As you alluded, practically speaking, ?Sunday Christian? is a self-contradictory phrase.

    Nice to see your church doing all the usual churchy things. How much of it do YOU actually participate in?

    As much as I can. Why do you ask?

    Would you do it if it was of a secular nature?

    What do you mean by a ?secular? charity?. Personally, I?m inclined to think that the kinds of charity that are of any importance (i.e. have eternal implications) are only the types that are of a spiritual nature.

    And what prevents you from inviting them to do any volunteer work with you?

    Nothing. I mention it to them whenever it?s appropriate.

    Did your agent tell you she had clients who looked at othe homes, but were flat out not interested in yours?

    No. That?s not how it works. As far as I know, any agent can show any house on the MLS system after clearing it with the centralized showing system. Again, we didn?t get any interested lookers from any agent during those 4 months.

    Or was the market just really stale at the time?

    Again, it was the summer of ?03, interest rates were below 5%, if anything, it was a better buyer?s market then than now.

    Interest rates aren’t the only thing that drive the market. I don’t see this as a door being “clearly” closed, except by you and your realtor.

    Then explain the utter lack of interested buyers? For the record, we didn?t list it with a fly-by-night Realtor?she was one of the top agents in our region.

    You chose when to take the house off the market.

    So how much longer would you have stuck it out??given the complete lack of lookers, under such ideal market conditions? We took it off after realizing that we were in danger of getting in over our heads.

    I don’t see it as a “clear” protection from getting into any kind of situation. That’s simply the celestial spin you put on it because you want your god to be in control.

    And you?re certainly free to interpret it that way. On the other hand, your interpretation does not automatically negate the validity of my first-hand perception of the situation. I don?t expect you to buy what I?ve told you hook-line-and-sinker, but given that you cannot scientifically or logically dispel my explanation of it, I would hope that you would realize how much it would behoove you to bring yourself to at least acknowledge that my interpretation is possible.

    You didn’t make any major changes to the house to upgrade it or make it more palatable as a sale. So it was just as marketable 4 years ago as it is now.

    We did this time what we did last time: paint what needed painting?no major renovations or additions; it is essentially the same house as before.

    The only difference is the availability of buyers.

    My point exactly.

    It’s a buyers’ market right now.

    As it was 3 years ago when interest rates were the lowest ever.

    And of course someone who’s looking for 100% financing is going to fall through.

    No, not at all. Have you not heard of the enormous popularity of the gift from the devil himself in the form of the ?interest only? loan?

    Anyway, isn’t it up to god to decide on what’s right? Did he tell you finances and space were the major issues? What about loaction to hospitals and schools and grocery stores? Garbage pick-up, mail delivery, neighbors?

    Obviously, I failed to adequately express my thoughts about that aspect. Our prayer is that our house can be the same blessing for whoever buys it as it has been for us. And why do you let yourself assume such xenophobic traits about me?

    I know you’re sincere, jcc. I just don’t get it.

    I know. And that?s why I continue to pray that someday soon you do.

  16.  karen says:

    jcc

    Because it is there, where two or more are gathered in His name, that He will be also?it?s where we are held accountable to each other, before God, for what we say and do as Christians.

    You are only held accountable to each other IN church? Well, that explains a lot. Although, I’ve seen some quite nasty behavior in church too.
    If you and I are talking about god, does that constitute being gathered in his name? Or do we have to designate a time and place first, then meet there, and then only praise him and not question him to qualify?
    How does this being held accountable to each other thing work? And how does church itself facilitate it? It would seem everyday life would give a better accounting of who is really walking the walk.

    As much as I can. Why do you ask?

    Just curious. No agenda. I showed you mine; was asking you to show me yours. Bevermind if it’s too personal.

    What do you mean by a ?secular? charity?. Personally, I?m inclined to think that the kinds of charity that are of any importance (i.e. have eternal implications) are only the types that are of a spiritual nature.
    Red Cross is pretty secular; Humane society; adopt a highway; Toys for Tots; Social services adopt a family for the holidays; random acts of kindness, things of that nature. You can still have your spirituality enter into it, even if it is not a specific Christian charitable effort.

    Then explain the utter lack of interested buyers? For the record, we didn?t list it with a fly-by-night Realtor?she was one of the top agents in our region.

    That’s difficult, giving that I don’t know where you live and what the normal turnover rate would be. Basing it on my small town, I’d suggest that perhaps no one was moving into the area at the time. Though the interest rates were low, the job market may have been very poor. I have no idea how large or small the real estate market is in your area.

    Hits on homes on real estate websites don’t mean a whole lot. I have looked at a lot of homes on websites recently, most of which I never had any interest in whatsoever. Some were too big, some too small or old, some even commercial. I was just doing a little investigative work. I imagine a lot of people do this, and many may be a lot more discriminating than me, which may explain why you got no hits in ‘03. Your type of house wasn’t what was of interest at the time. Which was why I asked a the question about what the realtor told you.

    So how much longer would you have stuck it out??given the complete lack of lookers, under such ideal market conditions? We took it off after realizing that we were in danger of getting in over our heads

    If I realized I was getting in over my head, and there was no real pressure to move, I would have taken it off the market also. Not because of not having any interest-I would have asked the realtor some more questions about that, I think. But simply because it was a bad move financially. Who knows–maybe someone came into the area the very next week who’d have been interested, but the house was no longer available. I see coincidence, not divination.

    I don?t expect you to buy what I?ve told you hook-line-and-sinker, but given that you cannot scientifically or logically dispel my explanation of it, I would hope that you would realize how much it would behoove you to bring yourself to at least acknowledge that my interpretation is possible.

    I suppose, with the aid of the realtors in the area, I could go back and contact all the buyers of the period and ask them why they weren’t interested in your house, or if they even noticed your house was available then. We could ask the ones with current shoppers what made or them look, or not look, at your home.
    I do not acknowledge any behoovement about recognition any more than it would behoove me to believe that Thor causes thunder and lightning. Or that Poseidon causes the waves to roll upon the shores. Just because neither of them offers any salvation does not make them less valid than your god. And the offernig doesn’t make any of them more real or valid.

    No, not at all. Have you not heard of the enormous popularity of the gift from the devil himself in the form of the ?interest only? loan?

    No, actually, I hadn’t. Must be some whopping interest rate!

    And why do you let yourself assume such xenophobic traits about me?

    What’s xenophobic about standard questions regarding buying a house?
    You said your’ prayer was specifically “x”. I said what about
    “y, z, and q”? I’m truing to understand the proper way of praying, because I got it so wrong.

    And oh yeah, I know, I was answered, I just didn’t understand, and it made me a better person.

    I know. And that?s why I continue to pray that someday soon you do.

    And I keep hoping you’ll becone more skeptical. ;-)

  17.  karen says:

    Rats.
    I screwed the blockquotes… again.
    *sigh*

  18.  mister heathen says:

    I personally, do not believe in John Stossel. When I press the “off” button on my TV, he vanishes. A real person can’t do that, can they?
    Besides, his speech abilities glaringly exceed his observation skills.
    It’s a clever animation. But, to me, less than convincing.
    That’s just my opinion.

  19.  rdmiller3 says:

    So it turns out that the majority of donors to a Christian charity are Christians.

    What a surprise.

    I wonder how the survey would’ve looked if instead of the Salvation Army it had been the Muslim Brotherhood? I bet it would!