In Memorium,,,

A topic for Memorial Day — a holiday for celebrating the fallen with cookouts and car sales.Why do we have holidays to remember the dead? It isn’t FOR the dead people (they don’t care) — it’s for US. So often we spend so much time REMEMBERING the best attributes of the dead that we forget to apply those attributes to ourselves (I always thought THAT was the point). Why remember if not to learn and improve?

142 Responses to “In Memorium,,,”

  1.  Rosemary says:

    “The Bible is not my book, and Christianity is not my religion.
    I could never give assent to the
    long, complicated statements of
    Christian dogma.” – Abraham Lincoln

  2.  karen says:

    Rosemary
    Great quote. Kudos, and thanks!

  3.  Rosemary says:

    Just a little counterpoint to Phreedum’s “historical source of…nation under god.”
    But, you’re very welcome.

  4.  Deadly Doomham says:

    haha, I wasn’t aware that phreetard’s arguments ever deserved countering. They usually defeat themselves almost immediately.

  5.  Deadly Doomham says:

    Phideaux, congrats for totally owning goosehenry there. Good job.

  6.  GooseHenry says:

    Ok i think i came here just to antagonize. I apologize, shouldn’t be doing that.

  7.  udonman says:

    Goose I think you’re inherently a good person you just don’t want to accept the evidence presented to you.

    and by consistently demanding we provide evidence and then denying the evidence provided you are antagonizing us.

    Thank you for admitting it

    Tony

  8.  tomwright says:

    Oh my. All these offers of close personal friendship, and started by Hairless no less. Heartwarming!

    There are worse ways to spend Memorial Day:
    http://www.michaelyon-online.com/wp/

    I especially recommend
    http://www.michaelyon-online.com/wp/gates-of-fire.htm

    http://www.michaelyon-online.com/wp/killing-for-god.htm

    http://www.michaelyon-online.com/wp/the-battle-for-mosul-iv.htm

    About the troops, not policy, for the most part.

    Just remember: The sheep are only for eating.

  9.  billh says:

    Rosemary:
    Just a couple of my favorites from Abe.

    QUOTATION: When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    This is my religion also.

    QUOTATION: Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    People like preedumb should abide by this.

    QUOTATION: My earlier views at the unsoundness of the Christian scheme of salvation and the human origin of the scriptures, have become clearer and stronger with advancing years and I see no reason for thinking I shall ever change them
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    QUOTATION: Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves.
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    Therefor, those that fight gay rights to have the freedom to marry, should not have the freedom to marry either?

    My first attempt to use block quotes. Hope it works.

  10.  billh says:

    Damn, can anyone tell me how to use block quotes?

  11.  reluctantatheist says:

    billh:
    Here’s a good example:
    http://css.nu/examples/blockquotes.html

  12.  billh says:

    The links on

    http://css.nu/examples/blockquotes.html

    do not work. Lets see if this works though

  13.  billh says:

    But it worked,
    thanks reluctantatheist.

  14.  karen says:

    We may not be advancing atheism, but at least we’re growing in conversion to blockquote usage!
    Congrats billh, and welcome to the Blockquote Brigade! We neither accept federal funding nor discriminate. And remember, boldface and italics are only a few keystrokes away. :)

  15.  bernarda says:

    “The criminal investigation has been seeking to establish whether or not the marines killed civilians in cold blood.

    A 10-year-old girl told The Times of London this weekend that US soldiers deliberately shot and killed almost her entire family as she lay hiding in the corner.

    Iman Hassan described how she heard the dying groans of her grandfather, mother, father, two uncles and a young cousin.

    The Los Angeles Times has also reported that investigators have concluded that marines went on the rampage, killing unarmed civilians, including women and children, after a marine was killed by a roadside bomb.”

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/5022380.stm

    If true, are we supposed to celebrate the sacrifices of these marines?

  16.  billh says:

    If true, are we supposed to celebrate the sacrifices of these marines?

    bernarda:
    2 marines out of 100,000 is a whopping .00002% of our troops out there. These men and women are watching their friends and comrades being slaughtered only for trying to help these people. I praise our troups for many things, especially having the discipline for ONLY .00002% of them cracking and losing control. Do you know what the murder rate is here in this country? Bet it is a lot more that .00002% of our population and we have nothing to compare with what our troops are going through.

    I don?t see people like you mentioning the atrocities on the civilians by the terrorists. Tell me, how do you feel about the christian jerks that go to military funerals to protest in front of a grieving family that their son or daughter died because of gods wrath against our military for allowing gays? This reminds me of the assholes screaming at the soldiers returning from Vietnam and calling them baby killers.

    I feel we need to remember our fallen country men and women that have fought and died so people like you can have your freedom. Don?t abuse the gift you have, that these men and women have sacrificed their lives for.

  17.  tomwright says:

    Bernarda, I general ignore you.

    But what you just wrote is typical liberal bigotry.

    A few soldiers commit the sort of atrocity that occurs in civilian society frequently, and all of a sudden it is becuase they are sodiers, trained pavlovian killing machines that Memorial Day celebrates.

    Moonbat-ery.

    Memorial Day is intended to ‘remember’, (get it? Memorial/Remember?), those that served, bled and died in service to this country and those that populate it. It does not celebrate those politicians that sent them into harms way, justified or not, but those that answered a call to serve and made that sacrifice to protect both the grateful and the ignorant alike.

    If you can not tell the difference, or understand the difference, then you are among the ignorant.

    Whether you attend the services or parades or not, isn’t the issue. Nor is it whether you use it as a chance to save money at a store, or go to the beach.

    What matters is that you think about this sacrifice that so few have had to make in recent decades, even while some are making it now, one that our fathers, grand fathers and others made for us.

    If you demean that, you are worthy of the most withering condemnation anyone lays on you.

    If you were within reach, I would spit on you.

  18.  phreedm says:

    Ren…for the record. I believe anyone should be able to put what every monument they want (religious/non-religious) on the grave of their loved ones.

  19.  phreedm says:

    Comment from: Rosemary [Member]

    “The Bible is not my book, and Christianity is not my religion.
    I could never give assent to the
    long, complicated statements of
    Christian dogma.” – Abraham Lincoln

    What was the context of the letter or speech that your quote came from?

    Got a link?

    Just a little counterpoint to Phreedum’s “historical source of…nation under god.”

    I don’t see a counterpoint at all. Just an attempt to move the target. A counterpoint would of been evidence a different source for the phrase.

  20.  phreedm says:

    Comment from: billh [Member]
    Rosemary:
    Just a couple of my favorites from Abe.

    QUOTATION: When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    This is my religion also.

    QUOTATION: Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.
    AUTHOR: Abraham Lincoln

    People like preedumb should abide by this.

    You make this almost to easy. All Abe was doing was stating scripture in his own words…

  21.  Rosemary says:

    Billh:

    Thanks for the Lincoln quotes. I’ll add those to my collection of quotes.

    Here’s a good one from James Madison: “The purpose of separation of church and state is to keep forever from these shores the ceaseless strife that has soaked the soil of Europe with blood for centuries.”

  22.  phreedm says:

    Fascinating study in attempting to find the letter Rosemary quoted from.
    Now tell me, does the following General Order sound like a man that
    “I could never give assent to the
    long, complicated statements of
    Christian dogma”?

    Note: The ENTIRE order posted. Not one sentence taken out of context.

    GENERAL ORDER RESPECTING THE OBSERVANCE OF THE SABBATH DAY IN THE ARMY AND NAVY

    EXECUTIVE MANSION,
    Washington, November 15, 1862

    The President, Commander-in-Chief of the Army and Navy, desires and enjoins the orderly observance of the Sabbath by the officers and men in the military and naval service. The importance for men and beast of the prescribed weekly rest, the sacred rights of Christian soldiers and sailors, a becoming deference to the best sentiment of a Christian people, and a due regard for the divine will demand that Sunday labor in the Army and Navy be reduced to the measure of strict necessity.
    The discipline and character of the national forces should not suffer nor the cause they defend be imperiled by the profanation of the day or name of the Most High. ?At this time of public distress,? adopting the words of Washington in 1776, ?men may find enough to do in the service of God and their country without abandoning themselves to vice and immorality.? The first general order issued by the Father of his Country after the Declaration of Independence indicates the spirit in which our institutions were founded and should ever be defended:

    The General hopes and trusts that every officer and man will endeavor to live and act as becomes a Christian soldier defending the dearest rights and liberties of his country.

    ABRAHAM LINCOLN

    The first general order issued by the Father of his Country after the Declaration of Independence indicates the spirit in which our institutions were founded…

    founded???…..Hmmmmmmm

  23.  billh says:

    god damn it, put this on the callendar:

    Ren…for the record. I believe anyone should be able to put what every monument they want (religious/non-religious) on the grave of their loved ones.

    phreedumb said something not totally dumb.

    “adopting the words of Washington in 1776, ?men may find enough to do in the service of God and their country without abandoning themselves to vice and immorality.? The first general order issued by the Father of his Country after the Declaration of Independence indicates the spirit in which our institutions were founded and should ever be defended

    Which god? You just assume they were xtians. True most were xtians but Washington and Lincoln both had distain for christianity. Those that bucked xtianity were very brave during those times. For well over a thousand years, people were burned at the stake for far less than what George and Abe said. Not to forget all those that signed (unanomously I might add) the treaty of tripoly, that said that the United States is not a Christian Nation.

  24.  bernarda says:

    billh and tomwright, get real. “trying to help these people”, “What matters is that you think about this sacrifice that so few have had to make in recent decades, even while some are making it now, one that our fathers, grand fathers and others made for us.

    If you demean that, you are worthy of the most withering condemnation anyone lays on you.

    If you were within reach, I would spit on you.”

    They are there solely to help Hitler/Bush and Cheney and Halliburton. They aren’t there to help the people. Most of them are victims or suckers. Some, like the ones I mentioned, are criminals.

    “The sacrifice so few have had to make in recent decades.” For what purpose? Go ahead, say that Custer sacrificed himself for us too.

    This memorial day is simply for propaganda purposes to drum patriotic fever to support the goverment’s criminal wars.

    I wish that none of the soldiers would die, but if they die or are mutilated for life, it is because of the lies and self-interest of the Bush Junta and of the draft-dodging deserter George W. Bush and the draft-dodging gnome wimp Dick Cheney. It is not because of me.

    There should be a memorial day to all the people who have opposed America’s imperialist wars: the real draft resisters and conscientious objectors. The Mark Twains a century ago that worked in the anti-imperialist league.

    This weekend is for everyone in the Bush Junta to shed their crocodile tears.

  25.  karen says:

    men may find enough to do in the service of God and their country without abandoning themselves to vice and immorality.

    Is it just me or does this seem to imply that abandoning oneself to vice and immorality also serves god and country…it’s just that there’s plenty to do elsewise? ;)

  26.  Rosemary says:

    Phreedum:

    Check out answers.com for the Lincoln quote I posted.

  27.  reluctantatheist says:

    Rosemary:
    I confess, I’m at a loss also, as all I find on google are 436 hits for the sentence, but not for the letter/speech. & I’m usually pretty good at finding them.
    I was looking on Wikipedia, & it does seem like good ole Abe mentioned god a great deal.

  28.  billh says:

    Comment from: bernarda [Member]

    I think you need to get a grip on reality.

    1st – I dispise our govenment right now. They are most corrupt to say the least.

    2nd – I do believe many are still around that did fight in WW2. My grandfather did and he is no longer with us. He did fight in the war. Germany as a matter of fact. Was that not worth while? Fuck you if you don’t believe it and don’t even bother reading on.

    3rd – There have been plenty of hotspots that our men and women have gone to in a humanitarian reason. What the hell does Somalia have for us? Nothing. Unfortunately, there are too many assholes in this country that did not want us there, and I would bet you were one of them. There are plenty of places we should have gone for humanitarian reason but for god damn pacifists not willing to support our troup and our willingness to save uncounted innocent lives.

    4th – I have better things to do that trying to speak reason with people like you.

    Finally, want to spit in our faces! You better be ready for a hell of a fight.

  29.  phreedm says:

    Comment from: billh [Member]

    Which god? You just assume they were xtians.

    Huh? What other faith did Lincoln mention in that order?

    Anyone that has studied “complete” writings by either president wouldn’t of asked such a question.

    True most were xtians but Washington and Lincoln both had distain for christianity.

    ????… Distain?

    OK. To be fair…show me an ENTIRE letter or order where either made such claims. Not some single sentence.

  30.  phreedm says:

    Comment from: Rosemary [Member]
    Phreedum:

    Check out answers.com for the Lincoln quote I posted.

    Thanks but I prefer to be able to study the entire letter.

    This is more of my style.

    In 1846, when Lincoln was running for Congress from the seventh district
    of Illinois, a rumor began to spread that Lincoln was not a Christian. In
    response to this, Lincoln made a public statement, published in the ILLINOIS
    GAZETTE, August 15, 1846, which read:

    That I am not a member of any Christian Church, is true; but I have
    never denied the truth of the Scriptures; and I have never spoken with intentional disrespect of religion in general, or of any denomination of Christians in particular. I do not think I could, myself, be brought to support a man for office whom I knew to be an open enemy of, and scoffer at religion.

    Benjamin P. Thomas, Abraham Lincoln (New York: Knopf, 1953),pp. 108-109.
    Mark A. Knoll, The Puzzling Faith of Abraham Lincoln (Carol Streams, IL:Christian History), Vol. XI, No. 1, Issue 33, p. 14.
    Gary DeMar, The Untold Story(Atlanta,GA: American Vision. Inc., 1993), p. 101

  31.  Rosemary says:

    Phreedum:

    Reluctant:

    I did some digging…well, a lot, actually, and found this in regard to the “The Bible is not my book…”:
    Probable fabrication
    possibly taken from “Abe Lincoln in Illinois” 1927, by Robert Emmet Sherwood.

    Also, found some indication that Lincoln’s public and private statements on religion diverged somewhat.

  32.  tomwright says:

    bernarda,

    I thank you for making my point for me so well.

  33.  CascadiaEventHorizon says:

    bernarda,

    You forget one thing when you write the way you do.The people that are in todays military are not so called warmongers. They tend to come from the lower socioeconomic CASTES. The military offers them thier only chance in hell of getting out of the lower CASTE. I would be in prison right now if it wasn’t for the GI Bill! It gave me a chance at the “American dream”

    What is so wrong with memorializing those that tried to do the same, but died in the line of duty?

  34.  phreedm says:

    Rosemary….thanks for the work.

    Kind of makes one wonder what other quotes are fabrications doesn’t it?

  35.  bernarda says:

    To Billh and tomwright:

    Other than WWII, what in what wars have American soldiers been protecting the interests of the American people. You have to go back to the Civil War and the Revolutionary War perhaps.

    All the other wars were organized and carried out to further imperialist designs. There purpose was to dispossess indigenous people of their land to the benefit of a small clique of profiteers. Even WWI was a senseless war for the U.S. No American vital interests were at stake.

    Mark Twain was more severely critical at the time of the colonization of the Philippines than most critics are today.

    From his War Prayer:

    “O Lord our God, help us to tear their soldiers to bloody shreds with our shells; help us to cover their smiling fields with the pale forms of their patriot dead; help us to drown the thunder of the guns with the wounded, writhing in pain; help us to lay waste their humble homes with a hurricane of fire; help us to wring the hearts of their unoffending widows with unavailing grief; help us to turn them out roofless with their little children to wander unfriended through wastes of their desolated land in rags & hunger & thirst, sport of the sun-flames of summer & the icy winds of winter, broken in spirit, worn with travail, imploring Thee for the refuge of the grave & denied it — for our sakes, who adore Thee, Lord, blast their hopes, blight their lives, protract their bitter pilgrimage, make heavy their steps, water their way with their tears, stain the white snow with the blood of their wounded feet! We ask of one who is the Spirit of love & who is the ever-faithful refuge & friend of all that are sore beset, & seek His aid with humble & contrite hearts. Grant our prayer, O Lord & Thine shall be the praise & honor & glory now & ever, Amen.”

    http://www.boondocksnet.com/ai/twain/

    Then there is also Twain’s version of the Battle Hymn of the Republic.

    The Battle Hymn of the Republic updated
    by Mark Twain

    Lyrics
    Mine eyes have seen the orgy of the launching of the Sword;
    He is searching out the hoardings where the stranger’s wealth is stored;
    He hath loosed his fateful lightnings, and with woe and death has scored;
    His lust is marching on.

    I have seen him in the watch-fires of a hundred circling camps;
    They have builded him an altar in the Eastern dews and damps;
    I have read his doomful mission by the dim and flaring lamps–
    His night is marching on.

    I have read his bandit gospel writ in burnished rows of steel:
    “As ye deal with my pretensions, so with you my wrath shall deal;
    Let the faithless son of Freedom crush the patriot with his heel;
    Lo, Greed is marching on!”

    We have legalized the strumpet and are guarding her retreat;*
    Greed is seeking out commercial souls before his judgement seat;
    O, be swift, ye clods, to answer him! be jubilant my feet!
    Our god is marching on!

    In a sordid slime harmonious Greed was born in yonder ditch,
    With a longing in his bosom–and for others’ goods an itch.
    As Christ died to make men holy, let men die to make us rich–
    Our god is marching on.

    * NOTE: In Manila the Government has placed a certain industry under the protection of our flag. (M.T.)

    You can’t get much stronger words than “the faithless son of Freedom”.

    It has always been the underclass that has been dragooned into fighting the oligarchy’s wars. Even back to the Revolutionary War. Read “The American Revolution–A People’s History” by Ray Raphael.

    As I said, I wish that none of them would die. But I don’t see the reason for commemorating almost entirely unjustifiable U.S. military repression for more than 200 years. Memorial Day is a diversion used by the various governments to create support for their imperialist policies.

    As to the current war, a Zogby Poll 2006 of soldiers’ opinions has some worrying results,

    “While 85% said the U.S. mission is mainly ?to retaliate for Saddam?s role in the 9-11 attacks,? 77% said they also believe the main or a major reason for the war was ?to stop Saddam from protecting al Qaeda in Iraq.?

    This is despite the report by the 911 commission in 2004 that there was no collaborative relationship between Saddam and Al-Qaida.

    “Four in five said they oppose the use of such internationally banned weapons as napalm and white phosphorous. And, even as more photos of prisoner abuse in Iraq surface around the world, 55% said it is not appropriate or standard military conduct to use harsh and threatening methods against insurgent prisoners in order to gain information of military value.”

    http://www.zogby.com/news/ReadNews.dbm?ID=1075

    Those who favor illegal methods are more than the 0.0002% or thereabouts that was mentioned.

  36.  CascadiaEventHorizon says:

    bernarda,

    I agree that some of the use of force decisions have been wrong. That still doesn’t change anything.

    Hate the game, not the player!

  37.  Rosemary says:

    Phreedum:

    There was the qualifier in the opinion I found…probable.

    I got 116 hits in answers.com on the “The Bible is not…” quote. Of course, that it is widely dissiminated proves nothing.

  38.  billh says:

    Comment from: phreedm [Member]

    Which god? You just assume they were xtians.

    Huh? What other faith did Lincoln mention in that order?

    The quote was from Washington. He did not mention Jesus or xtianity.

    Also, for simplicity, read the god damn treaty of tripoly word for word which was written by Washington himself and sighed by ALL of our founding fathers, which says without any god damn question, the United States is NOT a Christian Nation”! If you need more evidence, then you are beyond any help.

  39.  billh says:

    Oops, messed up on the blockquotes. Guess I was a bit frustrated with phreedm. It is like talking to a brick wall sometimes.

  40.  tomwright says:

    http://wrightwing.net/2006/05/29/08/27/289

    In Flanders Fields
    John McCrae
    (1872-1918)

    IN FLANDERS FIELDS the poppies blow
    Between the crosses row on row,
    That mark our place; and in the sky
    The larks, still bravely singing, fly
    Scarce heard amid the guns below.

    We are the Dead. Short days ago
    We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
    Loved and were loved, and now we lie
    In Flanders fields.

    Take up our quarrel with the foe:
    To you from failing hands we throw
    The torch; be yours to hold it high.
    If ye break faith with us who die
    We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
    In Flanders fields.

    Executive Mansion
    Washington, November 21, 1864

    To Mrs. Bixby, Boston, Mass.

    Dear Madam,

    I have been shown in the files of the War Department
    a statement of the Adjutant General of Massachusetts,
    that you are the mother of five sons who have died
    gloriously on the field of battle.

    I feel how weak and fruitless must be any words
    of mine which should attempt to beguile you from
    the grief of a loss so overwhelming. But I cannot
    refrain from tendering to you the consolation that
    may be found in the thanks of the Republic they
    died to save.

    I pray that our Heavenly Father may assuage the
    anguish of your bereavement, and leave you only
    the cherished memory of the loved and lost,
    and the solemn pride that must be yours, to have
    laid so costly a sacrifice upon the altar of Freedom.

    Yours very sincerely and respectfully,

    A. Lincoln

  41.  bernarda says:

    Among the “patriotic” songs of WWI there were some like “I Didn’t Raise My Boy to be a Soldier”.

    http://www.digitalhistory.uh.edu/music/i_didnt_raise_my_boy_to_be_a_soldier.mp3

  42.  Anthony says:

    hairless,

    Why did you say F**k you all? It did not seem to fit in.

    karen,

    Funny response to hairless